First, you cry. Then, you realize that crying doesn’t solve your problem. You need to get your mind straight and strong to fight the enemy. You need to be reminded that life is wonderful, even if you’re bald and nauseated and your chest is burned from radiation. You need a hug, a pep talk, an empathetic ear. You need the Sari Center — the comfort zone for people being treated for cancer and those who love them.